Understanding Prayer: Why we pray and How to be consistent as a Godly Girl.
- Holly Mohanye
- Nov 4, 2024
- 4 min read

Welcome to our Godly Girls Community!
We are thrilled to have you here, where girls like you have the freedom to grow in your faith, foster meaningful connections, get edified, and experience the joy of sisterhood.
This blog post will explore the purpose and importance of prayer, and provide practical tips for cultivating a consistent and effective prayer life to help you on your spiritual journey.
Girl, What is Prayer? Why do we pray? How long should we pray? How do you build consistency in Prayer?
As godly girls, we often encounter various challenges in our prayer life. One such challenge is the concern of feeling inadequate or unworthy of connecting with God. This fear can arise from a misunderstanding of God's unconditional love and grace.
However, it is important to remember that God's acceptance is not based on human performance or external appearances, but on our relationship with Him. Through prayer, we can cultivate a deep connection with God, knowing that He loves us unconditionally, even with our flaws and all.
Additionally, some Christian girls may struggle with distractions during prayer, such as overthinking or worrying about their responsibilities. These distractions can prevent them from fully engaging in their prayer time. Lastly, some girls may experience fear of judgment or rejection from God, especially if they feel they have failed or sinned. These fears can hinder their prayer experience and prevent them from seeking God's forgiveness and guidance ✨
What is Prayer?
Prayer is a communication between you, Godly girl and God. Prayer is communicating with God as you would with a friend. God doesn't require us to come to Him with large words or fancy language, 1 Corinthians 14:15 - "I will pray with my spirit, but I will also pray with my understanding. He longs to hear what our heart desires, our worries and what we're thankful for.
What is communication?, simply put, Communication is a two-way process involving the following elements: a sender, a message, a medium, a channel, a receiver, a response and feedback. With this instance;
You are the sender,
Your words is the message,
Your heart is the channel/medium,
God is the receiver
His responses in the Feedback.
Throughout various scriptures, there are numerous accounts that highlight how numerous individuals prayed to God. Two notable stories that exemplify this are the narrative of Abraham and Isaac and the story of Hannah. Furthermore, Job's unwavering perseverance and Jesus' prayers are also noteworthy. In each of these instances, it becomes evident that when these persons prayed, they were not merely addressing one deity or God, but they were also recipients of divine communication.
One of the most intriguing aspects of these stories is how God responded. God utilized various means to convey messages to these individuals, including an audible voice, dreams, visions, individuals, plants, and signs.
It is important to understand these principles because there will be days where you pray and still feel a drag. Prayer will never be a waste of time. No matter how far away you have been, you can be on fire again.🙏💕
Do you find it hard to pray and connect with God as a Girl?
Yes
No
Sometimes
I don't know
Prayer is a powerful tool that connects us with our Heavenly Father. It is a sacred act of communication with God, where we can seek guidance, blessings, correcting and training in righteousness, and forgiveness.
Why do we Pray?
So, we can deepen our relationship and Fosters intimacy with God
So, we can continually know the will of God (Request wisdom and discernment, Clarifies life decisions and purposes) and seek His guidance and direction
So, we can submit to God's authority for our lives
So, we can confess sin and seeks forgiveness
So, we can develop perseverance and patience
So, God can do in your life what He wants to do: There are purposes in your life that God cannot accomplish until you become a person of prayer. Rev 3:20 paints a beautiful picture of this.
So, the Devil cannot do in your life what He wants to do: As believers even though we don’t live in fear of the devil, it does not mean that we are ignorant of his devices. When we pray, we build ourselves up and fortify ourselves against his attacks. Luke 22:31-32.
FYI, God is constantly looking for girls to partner with Him for his will to be established on earth. To execute the will of God on earth, you must be a girl of prayer.
Why is it Important to build Consistency in Prayer
God has commanded that we always pray
Deepens relationship with God
Increases faith and trust
Enhances spiritual growth
Provides comfort and peace
Facilitates guidance and wisdom
Develops perseverance and patience
Strengthens resolve and courage
Fosters gratitude and thanksgiving
Unites believers in fellowship
Brings joy and happiness
Tips for Building Consistency in Prayer:
Set a regular prayer schedule (time) - Start small and gradually increase time
Go to Church and Meetings
Find a quiet and distraction-free space
Use a prayer journal or app
Pray with a friend or accountability partner
Incorporate scripture and worship
Be patient and persistent
Seek guidance from spiritual leaders
Make prayer a priority
Celebrate answers and blessings
Call to Action
Prayer is a vital aspect of our faith journey. By understanding why we pray and implementing practical strategies for consistency, you can deepen our relationship with God and experience the transformative power of prayer.
Activity
Pray for 10 mins.
Confession
I decree that today and beyond; I am a woman of prayer.
There’s always fire on my altar, and I am better for it.
As I pray, I receive clarity and enforce the will of God for my life.
My life will never be the same again. Glory to God!
Prayer
Girl, Say this prayer with us - Dear Daddy, please help me understand the importance of prayer and cultivate a consistent habit. May my prayers be sincere, authentic, and effective. Guide me in Your truth and empower me to pray with faith and perseverance. In Jesus' name, Amen.
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